Почему не Может я хранить ссылки в 'станд.:: отобразиться' в C++?

The important difference apart from the syntactic sugar is that references cannot be changed to refer to another object than the one they were initialized with. This is why they cannot be stored in maps or other containers, because containers need to be able to modify the element type they contain.

As an illustration of this:

A anObject, anotherObject;
A *pointerToA=&anObject;
A &referenceToA=anObject;

// We can change pointerToA so that it points to a different object
pointerToA=&anotherObject;

// But it is not possible to change what referenceToA points to.
// The following code might look as if it does this... but in fact,
// it assigns anotherObject to whatever referenceToA is referring to.
referenceToA=anotherObject;
// Has the same effect as
// anObject=anotherObject;

You should think of a reference as a 'const pointer to a non-const object':

MyObject& ~~ MyObject * const

Furthermore, a reference can only be built as an alias of something which exists (which is not necessary for a pointer, though advisable apart from NULL). This does not guarantee that the object will stay around (and indeed you might have a core when accessing an object through a reference if it is no more), consider this code:

// Falsifying a reference
MyObject& firstProblem = *((MyObject*)0);
firstProblem.do(); // undefined behavior

// Referencing something that exists no more
MyObject* anObject = new MyObject;
MyObject& secondProblem = *anObject;
delete anObject;
secondProblem.do(); // undefined behavior

Now, there are two requirements for a STL container:

• T must be default constructible (a reference is not)
• T must be assignable (you cannot reset a reference, though you can assign to its referee)

So, in STL containers, you have to use proxys or pointers.

Now, using pointers might prove problematic for memory handling, so you may have to:

• use smart pointers (boost::shared_ptr for example)
• use a specialized container: Boost Pointer Container Library

DO NOT use auto_ptr, there is a problem with assignment since it modifies the right hand operand.

Hope it helps :)