SMS receive with no notification

I want to receive a sms in my app, but I don't want my Android to show a notification about that event. Algorithm:

1. Receive sms (it's ok)

2. If this is a sms with special content-format (for my app) - process it with my app and don't display a notification.

3. If this is a simple message - I don't want to process it, so a notification must be displayed.

I tried to use an ordered broadcast, but it doesn't help. Somewhere I read that SMS_RECEIVE's broadcast is not ordered, but I saw some apps, which can receive SMS without notify.

Does anyone can help me or show me the right way to solve this problem?

Calling abortBroadcast() in broadcast doesn't help